
This goes out to someone very special to me who is having a very hard week. You made the right decision. At some point in life, you need to step back and think about yourself. All the pressure you are feeling, the loneliness, and the heartache; step back, breathe, and realize that this will be the hardest decision you will ever make in your life, but it makes or breaks your future.
All of the emotions you are feeling right now are hard; I know. But sometimes you need to walk away. Being alone doesn’t mean you have to be lonely. Life is far greater than what you have settled for. I’ve been in the situation where I felt like I didn’t want to live, I didn’t want to wake up in the morning, all because I didn’t want to be alone. I made a choice one day that I couldn’t let the past control me anymore, but I in fact needed the future to guide me. I realized that I couldn’t be in this rut anymore, I couldn’t let my future linger and dangle from my finger tips. I needed to grasp life, take control, and realize that the world is in my hands.
You’ve always settled, and never realized your full potential. I know you will be happy one day, because you’ve pretended for so many years. You deserve better. You need to find happiness in yourself before you will ever be happy with someone else. So please, I ask of you. Step back, breathe, and look at your life. Look at where you are, and where you need to be in order to be happy.
Life will have the roadblocks, the uphill battles, and the inevitable-heartbreaking moments; but we have these so we can fully enjoy the beauty of the good moments. I want you to keep your head up, and realize that you will come out of this, better than you ever were. Good things come to those who believe, and don’t let this beat you down. Get back up and fight. Just realize and remember that – Time heals the heart. Allow this time to figure out what makes you happy. Realize that time is your friend, not your enemy. It will get worse before it gets better, but the heart needs time to heal. You need to realize where you were in order to find where you want to be. Allow yourself to forgive the past, and allow the future.
Life is full of lessons; they lead a path for you to become stronger; you will become a better person because of the whole situation. You are an amazing person, full of life, hope, promise… and good things WILL come to you… just don’t allow yourself to shut them out now because your heart is hurting.
Just know that I am always here for you.. On any day… at any hour… at anytime. Please keep smiling. It will be okay, and you will be okay. Give your heart time to heal, don’t hang on to feelings, let go of them. Release yourself. You are too good of a person… to let this bring you down. And please remember… you are not alone. Not now, not ever.